Queens of the Green July event

Golf Society

I’m Getting Out From Behind My Computer… Will You Join Me?

Starting this spring, I’m trying something different.

I’m bringing together women in leadership and golf, for the fun of it – both on and off the course, creating the ‘Queens of the Green’ society.

‘Queens of the Green’ golf society is the perfect group for you if…

You’d like to take time out to have fun but you have too much on. You’d like to create relationships with like-minded others but you don’t know where or how to start… Networking feels contrived and the friends you have don’t really ‘get’ what you experience or how you feel.


Sitting behind your computer, concerned with all that needs to be done, juggling demands and tight timescales, is the moment you realize you are busy, but you feel a bit isolated.


A talented woman, your opportunity to have an impact others in the way you want to can be limited when you’re working in such an insular way. Your natural vibrance is being stifled and with it probably, your inspiration. You ask, who can I reach out to, to bounce around my ideas? Who will listen? Who will want to understand what I’m trying to do? Who would like me to listen to them? And then you realize you need to get out more, you need more ‘friends-with-business-benefits’… but where can you go?

Are you ready to ‘do business’ in a completely new way?
As part of a vibrant community?
Where YOU count, beyond what you do …as a whole person?


If you are, ‘Queens of the Green’ is a great new opportunity for you, because it’s where business and social life are being brought together:

  -   End your isolation and get out from behind that computer
  -   Receive a warm, friendly welcome
  -   Relax and revitalise yourself by meeting and mixing with like-minded women
        from the working world
  -   Overcome any reluctance to creating new connections and getting to know other women by
       having fun playing golf with them
  -   Build relationships: create a platform for deep collaboration in an atmosphere of mutual respect
  -   Get some fresh air, exercise and
  -   Most importantly, do what comes naturally… especially having a good laugh!

What you can expect:

A relaxing and restorative experience playing golf in the company of energizing and vibrant women, on Friday 19th July at Stonebridge Golf Club, Meriden, Warwickshire – centrally located right in the heart of England. It’s 13 miles from Birmingham, 8 miles from Coventry, and close to the M42 & M6 motorway networks.
Join us at 9.30 for coffee and a natter.
Then it’s either:

1. Group lessons with the course golf professional from 10.00 – 12.00 (approx.) where you can
   • take your first swing to give golf a go to see if it’s for you, or
   • polish your skills if you’re familiar with the game
   • BONUS: no equipment needed, clubs and balls for the lessons will be available (subject to booking confirmation)
2. Group play, if you’re already a golfer. Take the opportunity to meet with other enthusiasts for a friendly game. Where appropriate, groups will be supported by a course golf professional.
   • You will need to bring your own equipment to play
   • Please specify your intention to play & we’ll organise it (subject to booking confirmation)

We’ll meet back together in the clubhouse at 12.00 (approx.) for tea/coffee and assorted sandwiches, and a good catch up, before heading off at leisure…


* An Added Bonus Experience: On July 19th – after lunch we’ll have the chance to hear from two Queens of the Green, Jan Jones & Karen Edgar, who’ll be demonstrating ‘Using Tarot in Business’ for those who want to hear more about it and experience it for themselves. There is no obligation to stay – it’s only for those who are interested.
All this for less than the cost of a massage.

What others are saying about it:

‘I can thoroughly recommend this as an innovative and fulfilling networking opportunity. Any women who want to meet other interesting, creative and authentic women will thoroughly enjoy this experience – regardless of their interest in golf!’
Anita Brock, independent coaching & training professional

‘This first meeting was friendly from the get go, with hugs all round. The women that she’d brought together were all phenomenal in their own right and a pleasure to spend time with. I’m looking forward to the next event.’
Angela Cripps, independent consultant to the recruitment industry

‘Karen put together an experience, that shook a few beliefs regarding (others) own golf ability and the mystery of golf in general – and consequently the bonding and magic started to happen, because Karen at made us feel so at ease. Wonderful morning – and looking forward to the next time!’
Karen Edgar, expert coach to female entrepreneurs

‘Karen has created a new approach to building business relationships in an authentic way, which is much more meaningful in today’s market. It was a success from the start, all the participants came with an open mind and the intention to enjoy the day…it was a fantastic experience…so much so I have invested in a some new golf attire and shoes in readiness for the next date…a definite date for the calendar. Highly recommended, thank you Karen.’
Jan Jones, business mentor and coach to entrepreneurs

Tickets and Pricing

The Standard Rate price for this full morning event, including the opportunity to get to know friendly and influential women, golf tuition, green fees (where applicable) and refreshments is £59 per person.
Limited places are available at a lower Introductory Rate price of just £49, which expires on 5th July 2013.

Will you come?

Yes, I want to attend the
Queens of the Green Golf Society
event on 19th July 2013

How to make expanding your network fun
and easier than ever before

Have you ever gone to an event and:
found yourself cornered by someone trying to pitch to you as a potential client?
felt under pressure to ‘sell yourself’ to others?
or just found the whole thing uncomfortable and false, and nothing has come of it?
We’ve all been there.

If you are tempted to go to events, networking or otherwise
then you are, most likely, surrounded by potentially fantastic collaboration partners
and people who are only too happy to recommend you to others
but you need to choose carefully
(without hesitation, I recommend this one ;-D
>> ‘Queens of the Green’ Golf Society <<
and the booking deadline is this Friday 26th April)

Now the key to attracting promising connections
is to be genuine, natural
and to present yourself with confidence
then you’ll find you are actually surrounded
by opportunities you are looking for…

When you make the most of an event
you can literally change the course of your career overnight.
If that appeals, then
after Tip 1 – Show up -
yes! You have to get there
(and you’ll need to book your place to do that
>> ‘Queens of the Green’ Golf Society <<)
here are a few more tips…

Tip 2 – Keep it short and sweet

Be confident and ready to share what you do in under 30 seconds.
I’m a huge fan of memorising a short statement
in response to the (dreaded) question, “What do you do?”

Personally, I like this template:

I work with [INSERT SPECIFIC GROUP OF PEOPLE]
who are having the challenge of ……..[INSERT SPECIFIC PROBLEM].

For example, “I work with women in leadership,
who are having the challenge of loving doing it in their own way
and creating a sustainable business or organisation”

Tip 3 – Stay true to a clear intention

What do you want to come out of your event networking?
Be specific about what you intend to experience
so that you’re assured of achieving your outcome.

Here are several good options to choose from:

* Meet someone who will be interested enough in what I do
to recommend me to others
* Connect with someone who can introduce me
to a resource I’ve been needing
(think virtual assistant, collaborator, web designer, etc.)
* Connect with a like-minded colleague,
share a few stories and ‘off load’ a bit
* Be noticed by the event host and get on their radar
(this is a perfect reason to attend events
if you want to connect more closely later on with the host)

Tip 4 – Go to give, not to get

Showing up at an event with order forms for your products or services
is not only cheesy, but it sends a message of desperation, or ‘Me!Me!Me!-ness’.
That includes leaving flyers or business cards on tables.
All you need to do is ask for a business card
and let your new ‘partner’ know you’d like to follow up with them.
A simple email or phone call a couple of days after the event,
focused on setting up a time to talk
and get to know each other better
is all you need to keep your energy and commitment to collaborating going.

You’ll be truly surprised by how many opportunities
you can create for your business or career,
just by following this one simple step!

Now if you want to and you can make it
you are welcome to put all of these suggestions in to practice
with a wonderful group of women, in a fun environment,
in the Midlands, UK on May 10th

click on the link for more information
>> ‘Queens of the Green’ Golf Society <<
remember, the booking deadline is this Friday April 26th.

Whatever you choose to do, will you share how you get on?

Much love,
Karen Footman,
Mentor to the School for Heroines

Are you asking your clients and colleagues
these four critical questions?

Are you asking your clients (or colleagues) questions
that will cause them to stand tall? Or stay small?

Q1: Do you invite them to notice that the story they are telling themselves…
is keeping them where they are?

Q2: Do you ask them to do things that scare them …
and then hold them to it?

Q3: Do you remind them about what they told you they wanted…
when their behaviour suggests they’re backing off?

If you aren’t regularly holding your clients (or colleagues) accountable to
what you know is possible for them,
then you are selling yourself short and them too.

Here are two critical distinctions that I’m delighted to share with you.
I’m inviting you to integrate these truths in to your coaching
- in fact – start by applying them to yourself where they are new to you
and your clients (or colleagues) will love you
because the results they are experiencing from working with you are…
outstanding.

Truth 1:
Dare to ask your clients (or colleague) challenging questions
without prompting an ‘ouch!’ reaction,
by asking them with compassion.
Check your intention is to speak to their heart with your truth
- which means NO judgement.
You will notice they will feel safe with you and are consequently
open to being guided by your questions.
(Then you can risk asking the one thing that could get you fired
…but will make all the difference )

Truth 2:
Hold your client (or colleague) in your heart and your mind
as someone with unlimited, enormous, potential.
NB: If you aren’t doing this already…
whatever you are holding in mind instead will be getting in the way.
When you consciously perceive your clients as strong and courageous -
you give them the opportunity to
borrow your strength and your belief in them
to get them through to the other side of their struggle.

Which reminds me…
Truth 3:
Leaders, mentors and coaches who are committed
to supporting others to stand tall,
need leaders mentors and coaches who
see them standing tall.
No one is ever ‘done’.
So stay open and surround yourself those who will lead, mentor and coach you.
In fact if you are within touching distance of The Midlands, UK on Friday 10th May,
I have that one covered for you too!

Q4: Can you afford not to get out of the office for few hours,
learn something new
and have more women of influence,
as your friends and collaborative partners?

I didn’t think so
Find out more by clicking the link below to find out more,
whether golf floats your boat or not:

>> ‘Queens of the Green’ Golf Society <<

Finally, thank you again, for continuing to be such a loyal subscriber.
Remember, I do appreciate hearing from you too!
Let me know if there is a project I can support you with,
or if you have any questions?

Much love,
Karen Footman,
Mentor to the School for Heroines

NB Bookings must be completed and paid for before Friday 26th April
>> ‘Queens of the Green’ Golf Society <<

Get around THE REAL obstacle in your way
this Spring (it’s not what you think)

I’m working on a new project where I’m bringing women leaders
together with golf, for the fun of it. Interested? Read on:

Do you take heart as a leader?

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We resource them to lead their own way & create sustainable personal businesses,
whilst making the most of their time, energy and money.

Do you realise that as you share your experiences
you give other people the courage to move forward in their life?

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Much love, magic and sparkle,
Karen Footman,
Mentor to the School for Heroines